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Finally, the interesting perspective of this book, in contrast to the
various anti-divorce books by therapists and social scientists, is that it
comes from a very practical and legal perspective. It comes from a person in
the divorce business who has continual first-hand experience with its
consequences. Lorie is a person of integrity and wisdom who would love to
work herself out of a job.

-Stephen R. Covey



   
1.
50% of first marriages ended in divorce in 2002. (1)
2.
60% of remarriages end in divorce. (2)
3.
64% of unhappily married couples that remained married reported they were happy five years later. (3)
4.
19% of unhappily married couples that remarried reported they were happy five years later. (4)
5.
Children of divorce or marital conflict are more likely to divorce than children of happily married parents. (5) (Children of divorce are 50% more likely to divorce than children of intact families.) (6)
6.
Divorce in America costs $33.3 billion annually or $312.00 per household. (7)
7.
The average divorce in America costs the state and federal governments $30,000.00 in direct and indirect costs ($125 million per million population). (8)
8.
It costs a couple an average of $18,000 to divorce, which includes lost work productivity, relocation costs and legal fees. (9)
9.
30% of American divorces involve high conflict. (10)
10.
60% of American divorces involve medium to high conflict. (11)
11.
Children in single parent families are twice as likely to develop serious psychiatric illness and addictions later in life. (12)
12.
The number of divorces has quadrupled from 4.3 million in 1970 to 18.3 million in 1996. (13)
13.
96% of Americans express a personal desire for marriage; almost three-quarters of Americans believe marriage is a life long commitment. (14)
14.
One million children in America are involved in a new divorce annually, as of 1997. (15)
15.
Fatherless homes account for:
  " 63% of youth suicides
  " 90% of homeless / runaway children
  " 85% of children with behavior problems
  " 71% of high school dropouts
  " 85% of youth in prison
  " 50+ % of teen mothers (16)
16.
At least 40% of divorced women and 46% of divorced men admit divorce was the wrong decision. (17)
17.
The marital status with the highest suicide rate is divorce (rather than married, never married or widowed). (18)
18.
America is the unrivaled world leader in divorce. (19)

 

(1)
Center for Disease Control  – National Vital Statistics Report 2002
(2)
Center for Disease Control  – National Vital Statistics Report 2002
(3)
Institute Of American Values, Study: "Does Divorce Make People Happy" July 11, 2002
(4)
Institute Of American Values, Study: "Does Divorce Make People Happy" July 11, 2002
(5)
BYU Family Studies Center, Provo, Utah, 2003
(6)
DivorceMagazine.com. July, 2003
(7)
Utah State University Study "Costly Consequences Of Divorce", 2003
(8)
Utah State University Study "Costly Consequences Of Divorce", 2003
(9)
Utah State University Study "Costly Consequences Of Divorce", 2003
(10)
Utah State University Study "Costly Consequences Of Divorce", 2003
(11)
Highland Education Foundation, Highland, Utah
(12)
The Lancet Medical Journal, London January 2003
(13)
Center for Disease Control – National Vital Statistics Report
(14)
Rebuilding The Nest: A New Commitment To The American Family , ed. David Blankerhorn, Steve Bayme, and Bethke: ( Milwauker, W/: Family Services America, c. 1990) , 97-98.
(15)
Divorce Statistics, DivorceMagazine.com. 2003
(16)
Divorce Statistics, DivorceMagazine.com. 2003
(17)
US Divorce Statistics, DivorceMagazine.com, June 2003
(18)
Why Marriage Matters: Reasons To Believe In Marriage In Post Modern Society, Glenda T. Stanton, September 1997 Pinon Press, citing  – Jack C. Smith, James Mercy and Judith Conn "Marital Status And The Risk Of Suicide", American Journal Of Public Health, 1988, 78:78-80
(19)
Paul Nakonezy, Robert Schuel, and Joseph Rodgers, "The Effect Of No Fault Divorce Law On The Divorce Rate Across The 50 States," Journal of Marriage And The Family, 1995, 57:477-488


 

 
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